A letter that John Piper wrote to a couple in his congregation. I changed the names and sent it to Maria as an encouragement from one of our heroes:
Dear Alex and Maria,
Last night, as I prayed with Noel, you were heavy on my mind. I said,
“Lord, O Lord, please let me be a pastor who preaches and leads and
loves in a way that makes the impossibilities of life possible for
your people by a miracle of sustaining grace. Help me to know the
weight and pain of this life and not to be breezy when the mountains
have fallen into the sea. Help me to have the aroma of Christ’s
sufferings about me. Prevent shallowness and callousness to pain. O
Lord make me and my people a burden bearing people.”
O Alex and Maria, I am so heavy with your child’s disability! God is
visiting Bethlehem with such pain these days in the birth of broken
children. Randy and Ann Erickson with their baby’s broken heart; Jan
and Rob Barrett with their baby’s liver outside the body; and your
precious little one! Is the Lord saying, “I have a gift for your
community”? This is not one or two or three couples’ burden. This is a
gift and call to the whole church. This is a word concerning the
brokenness of this fallen age of futility. This is an invitation for
you all to believe that “here we have no lasting city” (Hebrews
13:14). This is an invitation for you to “count every gain as loss for
the sake of Christ” (Philippians 3:7). This is a shocking test to see
if you will “lose heart” when in fact God’s purpose is to show that
his grace is sufficient to renew our inner person every day to deal
with the “slight momentary affliction which is preparing for us an
eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison, because we look not to
the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen; for the
things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are
eternal” (2 Corinthians 4:17-18).
O Lord, open our eyes to your love in this pain. Open our eyes. “Then
Elisha prayed, and said, ‘O Lord, I pray thee, open his eyes that he
may see.’ So the Lord opened the eyes of the young man, and he saw;
and behold, the mountain was full of horses and chariots of fire round
about Elisha” (2 Kings 6:17). Alex and Maria, the mountains
surrounding your lives are filled with the horses and chariots of God.
Only to the eyes of unbelief does the devil have the upperhand here.
God is at work in ways and for years and generations and millions of
people that we cannot now imagine. This is ours to believe and to
bear, no matter the cost. This is ours for this short life.
It seems to me that this life is a proving ground for the kingdom to
come. Some are asked to devote forty or fifty years to caring for a
handicapped child instead of breezing through life without pain.
Others are asked to be blind all their lives…
But only in this life—only in this life. I want to be the kind of
person who takes that “only” for what it really is—very short. Prelude
to the infinity of joy, joy, joy. But not yet. Not entirely.
How will we ever cope with the burdens of this life if we believe this
is all there is, or even the main act in this drama of reality? O
Lord, give us your view of things.
May God fill you with anticipated joy.
“I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth
comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us.”
I love you,